Solidarity Vs. Quarantine

what is the difference between staying put in a single place with nothing to do but keep boredom as a close friend or being Quarantined?

I've had a friend who has been in quarantined because of the pandemic spread of the Influenza A which has ravaged the planet on the near few weeks. His case was that he came into contact with a person on whom was "suspected" to carry the H1N1 strain and therefore has been imposed with the quarantine.

I have another friend on which is as healthy as an ox and just sat in the house for the most part of 2 weeks and complained that he was bored. He had the liberation of just stepping out of the house to do something, but just didn't wanna and really did b*tch abt it soon after...

what is more worse, being in self inflicted quarantine or a government imposed quarantine?

for me, i would say whatever is fine, just get me a computer with an "Fast" broadband internet service, and i'll be there quiet as a church mouse. No need to complain abt the inadequacies of the government or self social status, just mind your own stuff and perhaps you'll grow to be someone that can use that time for something more worthwhile.

So Long Farewell

So Long, Farewell, Aufvidersen, Goodbye,
Adieu, Adieu to You and You and You.....
Sayonara Senor Michael Jackson, you've been an inspiration to many with you words of change, racial integration, progress, happiness, thrills, brilliance, showmanship, prowess, family, unity, originality and the Reigning King of Pop till the very last.

An an added note, an angel is now back at her place in heaven, Au Revoir Farrah Fawcett to meet the Charlie up in the sky. May you always find comfort and peace that eluded you in the last years of your life.

I'm starting with the man in the mirror,
Im asking him to make a change,
and no message could have been any clearer,
if you wanna make a world a better place,
take a look at yourself and make the change.

I used to dream, i used to glance beyond the stars,
now i dont know where we are,
although i know we've drifted far......

There's a place in your heart, and i know that it is love,
there's a place that's much brighter than tomorrow,
and if you really try, you'll find there's no need to cry,
in this place, where there's no tears or sorrow,
there are ways to get there,
if you care enough for the living,
make a little space,
make a better place,
Heal The World....


Excerpts from "Man in the Mirror, Earth Song and Heal The World"

Computer Woes

Its another day and as usual the computer has been running for weeks without rest. contemplating on whether to upgrade components and internet access is still pondered at the back of my head... but alas, its a dream which has been pending since i thought abt it.

the list of components for me to run the new server would be a handful and interesting if i could only get the budget for it.
some of the components i would like to have would be like, a Mac Book Pro 15" or 13" would be fine, a linux running desktop system, i heard that they are less prone to problems than that of the Microsoft kind. and ever faithful, a windows machine for me to do some jibber jabber.

i have also thought of implementing a web-cam monitoring system into the house as there have been some peculiar activities lately in the neighborhood and surrounding areas, but its just not feasible enough for me to look into these infrastructures in the immediate future...

how is it having dreams can be such a demotivating factor,
1) dreams of having multiple platforms at disposal.
2) dreams of having a server and super fast internet connection on demand
3) dreams of running a business of the back of my home
4) dreams of setting up access and infrastructure for a foundation of a business.

anyone willing to invest 1/2 million for such investment. :)

Happy Fathers Day

i love a man so much its true,
i love his so much i feel quite blue,
i know he loves me always so,
even now when he is no more,

patience is understanding are his choice,
never likes to raise his voice,
always putting things in the right path,
always taming the fury and wrath,

thought me silently without me knowing,
teaching lessons mildly showing,
learning to appreciate the little things,
taking care of wounds so they dont sting,

friend indeed has my father been,
moreso than i have ever seen,
i pray to God to the stone where he lay,
to send my wishes of Happy Fathers day.

I Love you daddy and will continue to miss you.

Don't Worry, Be Happy

How do we remain uplifted in these trying times?

Self empowerment guru Bridget Menezes offers 10 invaluable tips.

Walking gracefully across the room, her long skirt swishing gently around her legs, self-empowerment guru and former music teacher Bridget Menezes looks a picture of serenity.

Turning to face her audience at a recent gathering at the NAM institute for the Empowerment of Women, she flashes a wide knowing smile as she launches into a talk about how to overcome the doom and gloom brought about by out unsettled times.

The 70-plus Menezes is a speaker at various public and private institutions, appears on TV shows and is a columnist with some of our local English newspapers.

“I don’t know what it is that I’m supposed to be scared of. I have little money, little jewellery but I do know that I owe it to myself to be happy, optimistic and to think positive as much possible”.

The deep furrows at the corners of her eyes are prominent, but they are a testament to Menezes’ ever-smiling disposition. Her simply styled silver-white hair lends age but they also accord her that saintly hallowed effect.

Despite her years, Menezes proudly declares that she’s free of the usual afflictions of those her age – bone aches, body aches and headaches – which she credits to the power of the positive mind.

“Occasionally, there are a few aches and pains, but I laugh it off with good humour. As for illness, with regular exercise, and a positive outlook, I’ve managed to build an inner greatness.”

So, what are her tips to overcoming these trying times?

1) The situation is going to be grim enough, so why should we make it worse? All we need is to make some small adjustments and understand that we can’t have it good all the time. Its Earth’s cycle.

2) There’s always something to be grateful for. Make a list and count your blessings. A person who thinks negatively all the time creates psychological consequences in the body because negative thinking elicits a flow of stress hormones whereas positive thoughts stimulate a secretion of good feel hormones, which in turn supports the good immune function.

3) If you panic and start thinking the worst, you create a cascade of negative ill effects, which affect the whole body. It takes a toll, in particular, on sleep, besides moods and relationships.

4) Remember: Health is Wealth. If we’re able to keep our calm and cheer, we become creative because a happy disposition increases the level of endorphin and lowers the production of stress hormones.

5) Life is full of extremes – ups and downs, victory and defeat, praise and defamation. Any kind of threat should be taken a challenge. Carefree times are wonderful but it’d be boring if nothing ever changed. So when a challenge comes, learn to appreciate and to deal with it. Everything happens for a reason, including the downturn economy.

6) Remember the words: Nothing New. We’re faced this situation before, and we’ll face it again. History repeats itself. Sometimes we think too much and we afford out thoughts hospitality, so they end up being long staying guests. At a point of crisis, we come to a turning point. We can either go forward, or step backwards.

7) Live more, worry less. When you stop fretting about what’s beyond your control and start focusing and generating kind and optimistic thoughts, then life will flow in a more positive direction.

8) Think before you speak. Watch your thoughts, they become your words. Watch your words, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your habits. Watch your habits, they become your character. And watch your character, it becomes your destiny. Everything starts with a thought.

9) The biggest disease of the mind is thinking too much, especially about others. Thinking too much is like eating too much. There’s heaviness and you’re not able to be flexible. Its better that we focus in enriching ourselves.

10) Three ingredients to a log and happy life: live with attention, not tension. Use your time in a worthwhile way – wasting time is wasting life. The only one thing you can’t recycle today is wasted time. Be positive and have good thoughts always.

Dogs and Cats...

I read this a short while ago and i found it really interesting and funny. damn cats are exceptional beings :P

Excerpts from a Dog's Daily Diary

8:00am Dog food! My favorite thing!
9:30am A car ride! My favorite thing!
9:40am Walk in the park! My favorite thing!
10:30am Got rubbed and petted! My favorite thing!
12:00pm Lunch! My favorite thing!
1:00pm Played in the yard! My favorite thing!
3:00pm Wagged my tail! My favorite thing!
5:00pm Milk bones! My favorite thing!
7:00pm Got to play ball! My favorite thing!
8:00pm Wow! Watched TV with my master! My favorite thing!
11:00pm Sleeping on the bed! My favorite thing!


Excerpts from a Cat's Daily Diary

Day 683 of my captivity : My captors continue to taunt me with bizarre dangling objects. They dine lavishly on fresh meat, while the other inmates and I are fed hash or some sort of dry nuggets. Although I make my contempt for the rations perfectly clear, I nevertheless must eat something in order to keep up my strength. The only thing that keeps me going is my dream of escape... In an attempt to disgust them, I once again vomit on the floor.

Today I decapitated a mouse and dropped its headless body at their feet. I had hoped this would strike fear into their hearts, since it clearly demonstrates what I am capable of. However, they merely made condescending comments about what a "good little hunter" I am.

The audacity! There was some sort of assembly of their accomplices tonight. I was placed in solitary confinement for the duration of the event. However, I could hear the noises and smell the food. I overheard that my confinement was due to the power of "allergies." I must learn what this means, and how to use it to my advantage.

Today I was almost successful in an attempt to assassinate one of my tormentors by weaving around his feet as he was walking. I must try this again tomorrow -- but at the top of the stairs.

I am convinced that the other prisoners here are flunkies and snitches. The dog receives special privileges. He is regularly released --and seems to be more than willing to return. He is obviously retarded! The bird has got to be an informant. I observe him communicating with the guards regularly. I am certain that he reports my every move. The captors have arranged protective custody for him in an elevated cell, so he is safe.......for now

I wish I may, I wish I might!

A dream is a thought, imagines from your inmost being,
how it communicates is showing you what your fleeing,
certainly not powerful like a hurricane or disaster,
but it'll still definitely make your heart pound faster,

be it good or be it woe,
a dream will always show,
never once a forgotten dream will perish,
if you make a smile and never be selfish,

a friend said, a good friend to me,
do not fret about anything uneasy,
for in time there will always be a solution,
for what are friends then resolutions,

i'll love you always be it friend or foe,
more always when your down and low,
a care will stay with you forever,
thats why i can say, i'll forget you never.